In every matter of life, we need to master the art of negotiation; from discussion in a business meeting to Terms of a Sugar Arrangement or Sugar Relationship. Even before the invention of currency, the barter system is a form of negotiation.


“Good sir, may I exchange your goat for 2 of my furry rabbits.”

“Your rabbits serve as 2 meals for my family but my goat can provide milk which can be made into cheese. So why should I?”

“You are completely right. However, my 2 rabbits can also procreate as I have 1 male and 1 female and as bunnies do, they can multiply with significant speed and you’ll be having enough rabbits to start a small farm. Their furs will also make lovely winter warmers for your harem of women.”


You get the point.


I digress.


In negotiating the Terms of a Sugar Arrangement or Sugar Relationship, both parties must approach the platform with an open mind and honest attitude. We have provided sections in the profile page where you can clearly state who you are (in About Me) and what exactly are you seeking (in What I’m Looking For).

Read that first before you enter into a chat with potential Sugar Partner. After you have said your pleasantries (remember politeness goes a long way), either party can initiate the discussion.

Firstly, you need to be very comfortable with yourselves and be clear and direct. If you are after sex, then inform your chat partner. If you are not keen on sex right off the bat but could consider the notion, maybe after meeting to see whether there’s any chemistry, then say so. All egos have to be tucked away and try to keep the discussion results-oriented. Be considerate and flexible.

Always show respect and understanding to the other party. We are in no rush here. It is better to find a Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy who can agree to the stipulations you provided rather than get into any heated altercations purely because one is impatient and looking for short-term gratification.


Extra advice:


For Sugar Babies: While it is great to know your worth, you also need to be able to put out an offer/s that is of value to the Sugar Daddy you are dealing with. And it harms no one if you are as sweet as apple pie during the negotiations. A woman should be able to use her womanly wiles to get what she wants if and when she sees fit. No one will judge you for that.
For Sugar Daddies: Being curt and upfront saves everyone time and we are all for that however, try not to be pushy and contemptuous. Every woman likes to be flirted with, seduced by and wooed with sweet words and generous offer/s or gifts. If you would like a Sugar Baby to agree to your point of view, then perhaps a show of sincerity in the monetary sense would prove your intention. The best surprises do come in small boxes.

Most importantly, keep the conversation going online before providing private contact information. Until there reaches an agreed Terms of Sugar Arrangement or Sugar Relationship, maintain the e-dialogue. That keeps you a safe distance till you both get to know each other better.


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